Thursday, February 25, 2016

Truth about my last marriage

What i have learned from my last marriage

Fight till then end :)

Those that did not know i was in abusive relationship . Verbal and physical abused by my husband . I don't care if he come or try something know cause I am more stronger the never and i don't take men or people hurting me or trying to take control of me . Lesson learn i was a puppy back then loving and wanting love and hopeful for change . Now i am a mother fucking pit bull i will never let a man but his hands on me or anything else . I come to the conclusion that maybe there was some mental illness .

I think i have talked about this but no woman needs to be in a bad relationship. If a man hit or try and make you feel small . If a man thinks less of you then you need to get the hell away . In point i was sick one time and i could not eat or get out of bed  i had broke a rib . I would cough and throw up and i remember having a really high fever . My ex mad me drive him to taco bell i could not even talk or do nothing he forced me .  So on that never be with someone that does not care about you the way that you would care for them .

A good relationship My 5 year relationship has been so good i cant wait to spend the rest of my life with him . He takes care of me thoughtful never would hurt me like the past relationship . I was sick and had no one to take care of me my man took off work and come and tried to feed me held the vomit bucket and cold compress . I had a fever so bad i thought i was freezing to death . My man hates feet and he put socks on me rubbed my feet .He would try and get my pills in me but then i would throw them up . The change in relationships shows that there is good and how you should be treated .

The reason i wanted to post this to tell other women and others that there is way or reason a person should be abused and hurt in any way but the one that is supposed to love you . If you fear for the one that you love then it is time to get out .  If you sleep in different rooms and don't co-ex in each others lives . Then move on and find the one you need to make you complete . My marriage last less then 2 months till i came to my right of mind . I was like that saying it took 3 days till the world was right up right . In a blink of an eye I kicked him out and he tried to come back with me . He begged me and pleaded with me to let him come back .

I played his little came and was all nice and then ditched him like a bad habit . His  irrelevant sister who may say was a psycho in all message me and tried to talk about my family and how i was trash and other shit .  I stooped to her leave and said if so then that makes you the trash dump honey . So un adult but my mom paid for the wedding an my ex family fought over the left over food chicken all out fist fight lol. should have seen the issue then but i didn't . He was with other woman he tried to still get back with me cause he was well i don't even know i would say he was a child .

So when i filed for a divorce he would not take the paper or anything . He message me and said can i come home know . ( i said no are you sick in the head not a chance your nasty as shit ).  so i went in front of a judge that also did my nana and papal divorce and long story short i was granted . We tried and send the paper to him in case he said he was never told but he refused to send me his address not like i would go there lol . I have class and moved on in a big way .

i really think there was mental issues he thought he could talk to the devil and he was the son of Satan . Satan want him to slit my throat and kill me . Like i said a complete psycho .....


be safe and never back down fight till then end and then move on and be strong

Love y'all see you soon

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